How To Listen Your Mother

Posted by on May 10, 2015 in Life Patterns | One Comment

If you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting!“”Do you need a jacket?” My mother asked while sitting in front of her computer. “It’s supposed to be cold out.” This phrase is one that I’ve heard year after year. And with every year, the meaning has changed.   […]

Instead of Fighting Try This

Posted by on May 6, 2015 in Life Patterns | No Comments

I used to be a fighter. I used to beat myself up. I used to defend myself when I felt like I was being wronged. I used to explain myself when I needed to feel right or justified. I used to hold on to what needed to be let go. I used to be a […]

Organize The Overwhelm

Posted by on Apr 15, 2015 in Life Patterns | No Comments

We always have a lot going on. And I’m not just talking about the big chunks we can easily spot like work, family, school, romance, friendships. These big chunks normally float around us and although they exist separately, what we end up doing most of the time is tying them all together. We take these […]

Am I A Bad Person If I’m Not Happy?

Posted by on Apr 1, 2015 in Life Patterns | No Comments

Caring for ourselves sometimes sounds like we have to or should be positive all the time. But what if we like our dark side? Feel comfortable in our hurt and pain? What if our attitude is kind of what defines us? And, sure it’s snarky, maybe a bit sarcastic, but that’s just who we are? […]